This comment includes significant spoilers for the game, so if you don't want spoilers, please don't read this and play through it yourself.
This comment is also super long.
This is an excellent video, you both make unique points, and it was an entertaining watch.
I played the game and still don't know which side of the fence I sit on; I think at the end of the day naughty dog made something that told a story well.
In terms of gameplay and graphics, the game was on point, it felt natural to play, the infected were terrifying, the combat was hard, you as the player had many different ways of fighting, and it just looked so beautiful.
I think it did an excellent job in making you play the "villain" and turning the hate you feel for Abby into an understanding of why she did what she did and for some people (including myself) compassion for her. I also think Ellie not killing Abby was necessary for her grief, I don't think she didn't kill her because she forgave Abby, I think she didn't kill her because she realised her need to focus on Joel's life rather than this constant need to seek revenge, (to mostly face her own grief) especially considering the fact she didn't agree with what Joel did and only just before he died did she forgave him, and wanted to try to repair the relationship they had.
However, I think the way that they told the story which I thought was a good one, wasn't up to par with the first. There was a constant back and forth, which honestly mostly felt very fetch quest-y and unnecessary. It seemed more like a chore in parts than an experience, and it just wasn't as smooth as the first game in story transitions. (I would like to clarify it was not the whole time. I think they tried to put you in both shoes. For example, when I got to the hospital as Abby, I stroked Bear whom I had played catch with for maybe ten minutes when I had the chance earlier in the game, realising that I had explicitly slaughtered these people and blew Bear up with a trap not hours before. This interaction made me realise what I did as Ellie, how many people I had effected and how these people who were just fodder and in the way, were three dimensional. I am mostly just talking about the transitions between "chapters", I felt as though it happened in both Ellie's and Abby's stories a few times.)
The game honestly made me cry, made me frustrated, angry, and in the beginning, I absolutely hated Abby, and I was looking forward to killing her. Still, by the end, I had grown a considerable fondness for Abby and wanted to play as her more I could so I could learn about her character and where she was going to go. I became upset with Ellie for leaving Dina and JJ when they were right there for her to love and cherish, but I think it was necessary for her. I think the ending was how it should be, but even having all these emotions while playing this game, I still don't know if I liked it or not. Don't get me wrong I highly enjoyed playing it maybe 95% of the time, and if I got asked to rate it, I would most likely give it an 8/10, but at the end of the day, I couldn't tell you if I LIKED the game. And I think to me, that makes it a game that fulfilled its purpose, and I'm happy with that.
I'm so glad to let the experience sit a while.
These are my own opinions; you don't have to agree with me. I just enjoyed the video and wanted to throw my two cents into the mix. I apologise if this doesn't read well, I don't usually comment on videos.